There are many factors that affect your relationships but perhaps you can feel a little better in knowing that your Zodiac sign can offer some assistance. Offering a little insight into what makes you the way you are and who you relate with best.
The signs are separated across four elements – Earth, Air, Fire, and Water. Find yours below.
- Taurus (April 21 – May 21)
- Virgo (August 23 – September 22)
- Capricorn (December 22 – January 20)
Material situations and physical notions are at the forefront of Earth sign personalities, with a natural affinity to keep a level head, standing firmly on the ground with two feet. Practicality is a major focus point for all Earth signs.
Taurus (April 21 – May 21)
- Ruled Over by Venus
- Taurus Symbol is the Bull
- Taurus Earth Qualities: Fruitfulness and Stability
Luxurious and extravagant, you love sensational items, such as satin robes or sheets, and an environment that can only be described as lavish. You want the security of having a lot, but also for the beauty and freedom of the situation. Even with materialistic viewpoints, you still seek a symbiotic and harmonious relationship.
Depending on your situation, the advantage and disadvantage will lie in your need to display your monetary gains and accomplishments in an attempt to impress others or perhaps not. People find you easy to be with as you exude a calming vibe.
Quit time is another important practice you love, but as opposed to the fire signs, you actually enjoy spending this time with your significant other. Activities like shopping and cooking, actually motivate you to move forward with your day and you find a little excitement in these things.
Because you are very grounded, you have been known to be stubborn and seek to get what you want through sheer force of will, sooner or later. Being a strong, sensual person, you tend to go for the finer pleasures that food, art, passionate relationships, and music can bring you. You also have a proclivity for outdoor activities or situations, such as sunsets, camping or gardening.
It doesn’t matter which traits your interested partner has, as long as they hold the two most important to you; honesty and loyalty.
Virgo (August 23 – September 22)
- Rule Over by Mercury
- Virgo Symbol is the Virgin
- Virgo Earth Qualities: Connection to Materialistic Items and Practicality
Virgo personalities are the ultimate organizational freaks and are highly attracted to anything and anyone that helps them in their organizational endeavors. Virgos are practical and yet they also enjoy the material side to life enjoying owning possessions – especially if they are useful.
Many people who don’t know you well may think that you are closed off or have little to no emotions – however the fact of the matter is when pursuing romantic attractions it all comes out. Your high attention to detail can be a disadvantage or an advantage depending on which situations you find yourself in, and which relationships you choose to pursue.
You have a good memory and are sensitive to the wishes and wants of your partner. For example, you will purchase objects for them that they may have only muttered to you as you walked by a store. You have a quick wit and enjoy conversation.
Your perception and logic are unrivaled and you are not afraid to use this in your missions. Funnily enough however, you actually need a partner of the opposite traits to help you come out of your shell a little. You tend to listen and communicate your desires with others as a way to be understood, and as a way to understand others.
Many virgo personalities take pride in their bodies and love to work on them to be at their peak physical health, which assists in their love lives greatly, opting to choose partners with this same trait.
Capricorn (December 22 – January 20)
- Ruled Over by Saturn
- Capricorn Symbol is the Goat
- Capricorn Earth Qualities: Motivation, Determination and the Ability to Set Attainable Goals
Risks typically aren’t included in your game plan when it comes to pursuing relationships, but nonetheless you are ambitious (yet responsible) in seeking out the right person. Doing whatever it takes to get your way, your social status, reputation, position and career all play parts in your success in relationships and in life.
Because of this, you tend to focus on these things more strongly in your life and understand they tend to be the things that bring you happiness. You are an attractor; pulling people into your gravity and keeping them there as long as you desire and when it finally comes time for some serious relationships, you HATE playing games.
Maturity and respect are the key choices you look for when playing your hand at love. You love to surprise your partner with lavish entrances, such as limousines and horse carriages, and tend to be one of the more supportive signs, as you respect the hard work it takes to improve yourself, seeing it in others.
You strive for security, a place to make your home, and to possess and enjoy the finest things in life. If you find the right person, you will be forever faithful and stay loyal to the end, no matter what happens.
Again, like some other signs, you may be misinterpreted as a loner, or someone who doesn’t like to socialize, but in reality you are just searching for that right partner and simply have no time for other people’s games or time wasting.
When a Capricorn finally gets together with their significant other, powerful love lives are created, which exudes into your other aspects of life. Your friends and colleagues pin you as an absolute winner and often come to you for advice regarding success but when it comes to your romantic plans, getting away from it all is the right touch.
- Gemini (May 22 – June 21)
- Libra (September 23 – October 23)
- Aquarius (January 21 – February 21)
Air sign personalities are those who are intellectual about their romantic pursuits. Their endeavors have given them a great deal of knowledge but they are always looking to learn more. They have a reputation for achieving what they set out for and their goals are ones that are successfully completed, generally speaking. The part that Air signs play is one to try and change the world for the better, and look for leadership roles to influence their direct others, or the globe.
Gemini (May 22 – June 21)
- Ruled Over by Mercury
- Gemini Symbol is the Twins
- Gemini Air Qualities: Communication and Charm
It is without a doubt that Gemini Air personalities are the sweetest talkers out there. Oozing charm and charisma, your twin sign allows you to adapt to certain situations as a completely other person.
You find yourself attracted to those who are great conversationalists and have a quick wit about them, just like yourself. Your bread and butter with flirting lies in the realm of double entendres. When it comes to any hostile situations or problems, you know that there are 3 sides to every story and will endeavor to collect all the facts before passing judgement.
Discovery and writing are some of your special passions, evident in the poetry and love letters you give to your significant other. You shy away from playing games with others, even though your flirting style seems that way at first. Once Geminis are on the hook however, they need to be constantly mentally challenged or will become bored and move on, like many others.
Libra (September 23 – October 23)
- Ruled Over by Venus
- Libra Symbol is the Scales
- Libra Air Qualities: Connection and Social Relationships
Objective almost to the point of irritation, Libra Air personalities play the part of the diplomat and seek to mediate problems between people, rather than forcefully apply themselves. You are happiest when you are in love and everyone around you knows it too!
You tend to be a bit sensitive and sweet to your partners and love everything romance, such as novels, movies, and gestures. Libras, like their representative scales, attempt to achieve a balance in all aspects of their life and are all about harmonious living.
Charming, considerate, and generous in the bedroom, Libra lovers are quite sought after! The greatest thing about you though, is the fact that no matter what you attempt in your life, you try to involve those around you that are close to you. While you may be able to be around a large number of people at times, you also need your solitude. Anytime you end up at a party, after a bit of time you will find yourself wanting to be alone.
When in a relationship, you love to spoil your partner but more so in the way of attention and time. You constantly flirt with your significant other and have a genuine interest in making sure others are content. You can sometimes also be many people’s shoulder to cry on.
You love the whole courting process and can admit that you love the process being used on you too. Libras have proven that they do NOT like to be manipulated in any way whatsoever and if attempted by others, will reject them instantly. Hearts and flowers are the gift of choice for their significant others, and never discount the power of roses.
Aquarius (January 21 – February 21)
- Ruled Over by Uranus
- Aquarius Symbol is the Water Bearer
- Aquarius Air Qualities: Sociable and Quirky
As a tinkering inventor (no matter which field), you are seen by others as a little quirky, and have tendencies towards improving mankind’s future. Nothing short of a visionary at times, Aquarius personalities are very open-minded and look towards the more uncommon or unconventional ways to make a living.
Peer pressure doesn’t seem to be a problem for you and in fact you thrive on being different to the group. You know the true qualities of being a great friend and have many of the same stature in your vicinity. A humanist at your core, you look forward to the day that social reform occurs and surround yourself with like-minded people to support each other.
Anyone who stands out from the crowd immediately garners your attention and desire, regarded they meet some of your other criteria also. You sometimes need your own space, as do most people, but are happy to share it with your loved ones if they do not put too much pressure or stress on you while doing so.
You tend to talk more with your partner on your dreams to change the world but with many others you may come across as distanced or arrogant.
- Aries (March 22 – April 20)
- Leo (July 23 – August 22)
- Sagittarius (November 22 – December 21)
Fire is the sign that best symbolizes energy, enthusiasm, and most of all, inspiration. Fire signs can be impulsive and quite abrasive/forceful at times, but on the other hand they have a great burning for life and can be very focused.
Aries (March 22 – April 20)
- Ruled Over by Mars
- Aries Symbol is the Ram
- Fire Sign Qualities are: Impulsive and Energetic
Due to your impulsive nature, you find that you move on instinct when it regards love. You can come across quite obvious or direct and can quickly express your interest. This can either work to your advantage or disadvantage. You do this because you are infatuated easily but if the other party doesn’t return it promptly, you tend to become bored and move on rather quickly.
While rejection stings as much as the next person, you can continue your life quite fast but tend to get your way most of the time. The thrill of the chase and the satisfaction that comes from romantic conquest drives you, even playing the game of Hard to Get.
The funny thing about you is that you actually like when the interest returns the same game. Confidence and self-worth are attractive qualities to you, and you really don’t like needy people. Affirmations and affection play a major role in your self-esteem, especially from your partner.
Leo (July 23 – August 22)
- Rule Over by the Sun
- Leo Symbol is the Lion
- Fire Sign Qualities are: Self-Identity and Love for Drama
As a Leo, you really enjoy being in the spotlight with your lover. The attention and affirmations you receive from them are the best part of your relationship. You’re very emotional and because of this, you gravitate towards being a little dramatic and exaggerate a bit.
Whenever you arrive somewhere, people know you’ve shown up through a number of factors, like your sense of dress, your presence on arrival, simple head movements, or even gestures and contact!
Due to your emotional pretext, you tend to be a genuine romantic, even going to the extent of writing poems for love interests or partners. You absolutely love giving gifts and little surprises to your partner during your relationships and this continues to make you happy. You know how to exude an aristocratic atmosphere around you and others you deal with.
Being the leader in your romantic pursuits brings you joy, but the need for constant attention and admiration can be a disadvantage many times. When all is said and done, you know that to get respect, you must give respect, priding yourself on the clarity of this fact. Charming, touchy, and adored by many, Leos are very happy in their pursuits, most of the time.
Sagittarius (November 22 – December 21)
- Rule Over by Jupiter
- Sagittarius Symbol is the Archer
- Sagittarius Fire Qualities: Connection of Identity and Craving for New Experiences
A Sagittarius lives their life on the wild side, and sometimes, a little too much so. This comes from the unlimited craving to seek out new experiences, new ideas, and new projects. You get bored with monotony and routine and instead prefer to look for a life of variety. Whether it is food, places, people, or hobbies, you try new versions all the time and cannot sit still.
The Archer only seeks out dynamic types so be ready to keep up if they fancy you. You strive to learn the truth in all your situations, especially romantic ones, but tend to exaggerate or embellish a little to impress the person you are interested in. This isn’t because of a lack of self-esteem but rather because you feel such a passion for life, you want the other person to feel it too.
Space is important in your relationships and private time is something you sorely need after a little while, even if it’s just to recharge for a bit. You desire partners who have the same qualities and independence is very attractive to you. As mentioned before, honesty is your main pursuit in your relationships and with this principle, you usually opt to become friends before you move to a relationship.
You gravitate towards fun dates, where you can be yourselves and not put on a show. You tend to be a smart person and can be serious much of the time, but when it comes to fun times or entertaining, you don’t shy away from that either.
It is almost as if you are a completely balanced individual, garnering enjoyment from other people’s laughter. Self-discovery is key to happiness in your life and your partner needs to be there on the ride with you, supporting each other along the way. Sensual exploration in the bedroom and stimulating/intellectual conversations are major turn ons.
- Cancer (June 22 – July 22)
- Scorpio (October 24 – November 21)
- Pisces (February 22 – March 21)
Water signs are those that possess the following qualities: responsiveness, abundant nature, occasional excessiveness, expressive and emotional.
Cancer (June 22 – July 22)
- Ruled Over by the Moon
- Cancer Symbol is the Crab
- Cancer Water Qualities: Emotional and Instinctual
Thanks to your insightful and intuitive traits, many people look at you in a very positive light. Knowing this full well, your romantic conquests are ones that you know how to orchestrate. Many of your friends and associates feel like they can tell you anything, leading to more than a few hallway confessionals but you don’t mind this at all.
When it’s time to start seeking out your romantic interest, you have a reserved method of doing things. Caring and loving, you enjoy showering your partner with affection and hold their hand often in public. You are happy to exclaim to others of your relationship and never hide the fact.
Home-cooked meals or extravagant, yet clever, dates are the game winners in your arsenal and pampering your significant other is your signature move. All relationships are important to you, not just romantic ones, and if anything happens to someone you care about, you tend to become a tad over protective as family is the most important thing to you in life.
Traditions and culture also play a part in why the connection of family is so important to you, and you will take part and educate others on yours to anyone that will listen. When you have your own family you will definitely enjoy creating some new traditions of your own to pass onto your children.
Home is your temple and there is no other place you would rather return to at the end of the day. During the flirting process, you will get the person to meet your family before a full relationship begins but once they are accepted, they quickly become the revolving point of your world.
Scorpio (October 24 – November 21)
- Ruled Over by Mars
- Scorpio Symbol is the Scorpion
- Scorpio Water Qualities: Emotional, Focused and Sultry at Times
Scorpios have sometimes been called the dangerous ones in the group when it comes to descriptions. You have a deep passion for many things and taking risks is one of them. You have also been described as having a strong animal magnetism about you and easily seduce others at your will.
Your intense gaze can put some people off at times but the closer you are to someone, the more you will respect them by looking directly at them. With partners, the gaze becomes more intense, almost as if you are looking into their soul; what makes them special. Many people can actually feel quite turned on by this so it’s no surprise that your bedroom life is amazing too!
You should have been a detective as you have amazing deductive powers and can usually find out whatever you need to know about people. Your intensity makes way for your emotional awareness to yourself and of others. This comes into play as you make flirting and courting more of a priority.
If someone hurts a Scorpio, either physically or mentally, there are not dire consequences but rather, Scorpio personalities will cut that person out (forever if possible). They are hard to forget, and hard to forgive.
With your inquisitive nature, anything to be found out in the bedroom will be, and always is found out, providing an amazing experience for your lover. Secrets may be held due to your nature but this is something that may hurt your partner or courtship, but they partners they desire the most are those that will meet their expectations, match them in the bedroom, and in their other aspects of life.
Pisces (February 22 – March 21)
- Ruled Over by Neptune
- Pisces Symbol is Two Bound Fish
- Pisces Water Qualities: Emotional, Compassionate and Mysterious
Being of a mysterious temperament, you can’t escape the allure of a good secret or two and can be shy when it comes to many situations. Even though this is your exterior, there are times where your curiosity will result in exciting situations for your love life.
Sensitive and vulnerable, you use both of these in your method to attract or court your desired partner, and know this full well. Sometimes it is hard to separate the realm of fantasy and romance in your eyes, but that only makes things more fun and exciting for those you pursue.
Sharing your fears and dreams with that one person is your ultimate goal and will be able to connect with the right person forever. You use bodily gestures and facial expressions to show your flirting side and like to employ a number of methods, such as hand touching, or eye gazing, and smiling.
Pisces personality men have been known to be chivalrous and both sexes have shown to be self-sacrificing in their pursuit for happiness for their lover’s needs. The only problem is that you have a habit of day dreaming a bit too often and would rather stay still than rock the boat. You are very creative and use this in your courtship pursuits, showering your potential interest with gifts and declarations of love.